Saturday, March 9, 2019

Little Pointers




When you speak in front of an audience...

-Dress comfortably. Be careful about your grooming. Make sure you are nicely presented

-Check that your audience is comfortable. Don't leave people standing for long periods

-Assess the age group of your audience. Speaking to children, youth, adults, seniors, or a mixed group all require different skills.

-Know your subject - prepare...prepare...prepare

-Use your microphone correctly - keep it right under your chin...even with a microphone, speak as if your voice needs to carry to the person who is the furthest away

-Find out how long you are supposed to speak and stick to it

-Use your eyes to connect with your audience. Look directly at people, but don't fixate on one or two - look at everyone 

-Use humor and personal stories to make yourself relatable 

-Try to enjoy yourself. If you are anxious...your audience will pick up on that right away

-Be authentic - don't try to copy someone else's style or mannerisms

-Use a well-timed story or climax to conclude your speech. Leave your audience happy that they heard your talk


Wednesday, March 6, 2019

Sowing Words

Our words are so important - they are like seeds that drop into the lives of others. When we sow positive words, we reap a harvest of positivity. Likewise, when we sow negative words, negativity will follow us wherever we go. 

Some people call this karma "what goes around comes around"...or Zig Ziegler's words of wisdom:



I prefer the Biblical idea of sowing a reaping: Do not be deceived: God is not mocked, for whatever one sows, that will he also reap. Galatians 6:7

Consider this wise saying that has been attributed to many authors from Ralph Waldo Emerson to Lao Tzu to Stephen R Covey that succinctly sums up what I am trying to say about "sowing" words:

Sow a thought - reap a word
Sow a word - reap an act
Sow an act - reap a habit
Sow a habit - reap a lifestyle
Sow a lifestyle - reap a character
Sow a character - reap a destiny

In other words...we reap what we sow with our thoughts and words.

I want to conclude with some "seeds" that will lay a positive foundation for our motivations as we speak to others:

With Your Words:
                                
Be kind             
 Be wise                                   
  Be loving
   Be careful
    Be helpful
     Be truthful
      Be tolerant
       Be selfless
        Be thankful
         Be pleasant
          Be sensitive
           Be generous
            Be accepting
             Be thoughtful
              Be refreshing
               Be approving
                Be perceptive
                 Be appreciative
                  Be understanding
                   Be complimentary
                    Be compassionate

1Peter 3:10
For “He who would love life And see good days, Let him refrain his tongue from evil, 
And his lips from speaking deceit.




Tuesday, February 26, 2019

Meet Some of our Members

We had a great meeting tonight. Meet some of our toastmasters. We would love for anyone in Texarkana and surrounding areas to join us. This is an excellent organization to grow in your public speaking and leadership skills.

Dawane Wanke - our club coach

Hazel leading a discussion

Here I am talking about something...somewhere!



Tuesday, February 19, 2019

Characteristics of an Effective Public Speaker

Here are some tried and true characteristics of an effective Public Speaker:

1. Confidence - In her degree to gain a Doctor of Philosophy degree, Caroline Wesson (University of Wolverhampton) studied the role of confidence in communication and its power to influence others. She noted that "A highly confident speaker is viewed as being more accurate, competent, credible, intelligent, knowledgeable, likable, and believable than the less confident uncertain speaker."

Have confidence in yourself and your subject - it will make all the difference.

2. Passion - No-one wants to listen to a lifeless, passionless speaker. Pick topics that you feel deeply about - topics that excite you. When your passion is authentic, you will not only be believable, you will also be enjoyable to listen to.

3. Creativity - Another way you can impact your audience is to be creative in your presentation. Find interesting ways to say and present your ideas...don't just talk - bring your listeners in to your speech with illustrations, demonstrations, humor, actions, personal examples, etc. Don't be afraid to make mistakes - step out of the box and allow your subject to give life.

4. Humor - Humor has the ability to take people further - much faster than by simply speaking. Humor draws people in to you and sets them at ease. Don't be afraid to laugh at yourself. There is a lot of truth that can be carried in a good joke 

5. Respect - 
• Respect your audience - always give them your best. 
• Respect yourself - always prepare well and fully step into the role God has given you. 
• Respect your speech - practice it until you can deliver it with confidence and excellence.
• Respect those leaders/hosts who invited you to speak - don't go longer than asked for; honor them as you begin.

6. Connect - It is so important to connect with your audience - many tools are at your disposal:
• Put the audience at ease through the opening of your talk 
• Eye contact - this make people know that you are speaking directly to them
• Use personal examples - let them know that you are one of them
• Use humor
• Tell stories - stories are so much better than facts
• Non-verbal language - don't stand stiffly like a board. Move around and use timely gestures and movements

7. Conclusion -Your conclusion can be the most important part - give your audience something to take away. Drive home your main points with effective use of succinct repetition. A powerful story that sums up your point is a fantastic way to conclude. Give your audience something to take home with them - something unforgettable that allows the speech to "live" in their hearts for some time.




Wednesday, February 13, 2019

Dale Carnegie

This is why you need Toastmasters:

“There are always three speeches, 
for every one you actually gave. 
The one you practiced, 
the one you gave,
and the one you wish you gave.”
Dale Carnegie

Come and learn how to give the speech that resonates in your heart - the speech you wish you could give - the speech that seems to come so easily to others.


Tuesday, February 12, 2019

Toastmasters Helps Members Overcome Fear of Public Speaking



On May 21st 2016, the Texarkana Gazette published an article on the local Toastmasters clubs. I wanted to post the article here for your benefit:

By John Fooks

When someone mentions "Toastmasters," most people immediately think of the manufacturing company that literally makes toasters, convection ovens and fryers.
The name of that company is Toastmaster, not Toastmasters.
Toastmasters International is based in California; its primary mission is to serve as "the leading movement in making effective oral communication a worldwide reality."
To put it in simpler terms, it is "public speaking training for the layperson."
Although many of its members are professional speakers (or at least comfortable with public speaking), TI studies indicate that 72 percent of members join the organization to overcome their fear of public speaking. Then, using their improved communication skills, they begin to develop their leadership and management skills.
The first Toastmasters club was founded by a Young Men's Christian Association (YMCA) Director Ralph C. Smedley in the basement of a friend's home on Santa Anna, Calif., on Oct. 22. 1924. Throughout its history TI has served more than 4 million members and today the organization serves more than 332,000 active members in 135 countries through its 15,400 clubs.
Smedley created the concept of the Toastmasters' meeting to help young men in the YMCA develop speaking and leadership skills. After a few years. he decided to offer it to adults.
Smedley said that while most nonprofit organizations are founded to serve others, the Toastmasters Club was founded to benefit its members.
In other words, it is an educational organization that operates clubs worldwide for the purpose of helping members improve their communication, public speaking and leadership skills that are so important in all aspects of business and interpersonal communication.
Professionally speaking, Toastmasters might be the best kept secret in personal and professional development. The one-hour weekly meeting is a learn-by-doing workshop where members hone their communication and leadership skills in a most friendly environment.
In fact, the Mission of a Toastmasters Club is to "provide a mutually supportive and positive learning environment in which every member has the opportunity to develop communication and leadership skills, which in turn foster self-confidence and personal growth."
The basic agenda for each weekly meeting is divided into two parts: speaking and evaluating, which is presided over by the Toastmaster of the Day.
The speaking portion of the meeting is usually two prepared speakers who are guided by speech manuals that take the speaker in hand and walk them through various aspects of effective public speaking, such as gestures and vocal variety; speech organization and the power of eye contact; projection and enunciation.
And that's just the "basic manual" of 10 speeches, averaging 5 to 7 minutes per speech and the speeches are timed. There are two dozen "advanced manuals," from "Speaking to Inform" to "Public Relations" to "The Entertaining Speaker" and others.
Following the Prepared Speakers portion of the meeting, the Table Topics Master is introduced. This is the impromptu speaking portion of the meeting where the Table Topics Master brings three or four questions before the group and randomly calls upon other Toastmasters. They are each required to speak from a minimum of one minute to not more than two and one-half minutes.
Then the General Evaluator is introduced to take control of the lectern (and it is a "lectern," which one stands behind, and not a "podium," which is what one stands upon). The General Evaluator introduces the Toastmasters who have been assigned to "evaluate" each of the Prepared Speakers.
To some, this is the most important part of the meeting, as the evaluators can offer tremendous growth opportunities in two ways. First, what are the strengths of the speaker and everybody has them, even the brand new member. Second, what are one or two suggestions for improvement that each evaluator can provide?
Toastmasters don't like to use the word "criticize." They would rather offer "suggestions for improvement" which are couched in the most constructive and encouraging manner possible.
The General Evaluator then calls on three reports from duty-holders who are introduced at the beginning of the meeting.
The "WordMaster/Grammarian" is a Toastmaster who posts a word that speakers are encouraged to work into anything they say during the meeting, and he/she also keeps an ear out for grammatical errors and makes a report at the end of the meeting.
Probably the one thing guests will take away from the meeting is the "Ah Counter," who is introduced at the beginning of the meeting. He/she operates a small bicycle horn, which is squeaked when anybody utters speech fillers such as "Uh" or "Ah," or repetitive "Ands" or "Sos."
The Ah Counter also makes a report during the Evaluation portion of the meeting.
The Vote Counter is called upon last by the Toastmaster of the Day, when "winner ribbons" are handed out for "Best Prepared Speaker," "Best Table Topics" and "Best Evaluator."
To the guest, everything seems to go fast and furious during a regular Toastmaster meeting, but Toastmasters are the friendliest and most supportive people in the world when it comes to helping guests understand what's going on or encouraging other Toastmasters, especially new members.
One Toastmaster with Twin Cities Toastmasters mentioned a few weeks ago why she had come back to the club as a member three different times since first joining almost a decade ago.
"The great thing to watch in this club is how everybody supports and encourages one another during the meeting," said Jennifer Hagebusch, who was serving as General Evaluator and presenting a "general evaluation" of the meeting. "If there is advice to be offered or correction to be made, it is given in the gentlest manner. It's why I keep coming back to this club."
Another Toastmaster of 31 years says, "It's the most fun I have all week."
There are three Toastmasters clubs locally, which are part of District 50, which includes 187 clubs with 3,800 members in seven Divisions ranging from Dallas, Texas, to Shreveport, La., to Texarkana, Texas.
Twin Cities Toastmasters meets at noon Thursday in the Fellowship Hall at First Lutheran Church, 4600 Texas Blvd., Texarkana, Texas.
Solid Rock Toastmasters meets at 6:30 every Tuesday evening at the Southwest Recreation Center 3222 W 7th St. Texarkana, TX 75501 
University Toastmasters meets at 6:30 every Monday evening at First United Methodist Church in downtown Texarkana, Ark. 

Public Speaking Tips

Here are eight great tips that will improve your public speaking:




1. Prepare - A good speech takes thought and preparation. Both of these need an investment of time. Don't just throw something together at the last minute - it shows!

2. Think about your audience - Every audience is different. Think about what style of speech you are giving (humorous, motivational, informative, etc) and speak in a manner and at a level that will suit your listeners.

3. Learn from others - That's why Toastmasters is a great organization - you can learn from people who have done this dozens/hundreds of times. All of us can grow - don't be intimidated by the masters - learn from them and build your own skills.

4. Know your strengths and weakness - Don't try to be something you are not. Everyone has strengths and weaknesses. Build on the weaknesses and accentuate those things that will make you easy and interesting to listen to - for example, your story-telling, humor, eye contact, message.

5. Start strong - Make sure that your opening is "catchy." Use a powerful short illustration, a good, applicable joke, or a personal story - something that opens the audience up to you and gets their attention.


6. Practice - Go over your speech in front of a mirror or record it on your phone. Pay attention to the details of your pace and pauses. Time yourself so that you have a good idea how long you will go.

7. Relax - Some find this hard than others but it is super important. Your speed, voice and demeanor can be greatly affected by nervousness. BREATHE - take a few long deep breaths, listen to some calming music and smile a lot.

8. Be Passionate - Even if your subject does not require a loud, lectern-banging performance, you still need to bring your speech from a deep place of belief, integrity and passion. It makes you sound real - believable.


Don't be this guy:

Be this guy:





Toastmasters Core Beliefs

Here are some of the core tenets of Toastmasters: 



The Mission of Toastmasters International

Toastmasters International is the leading movement devoted to making effective oral communication a worldwide reality.
Through its member clubs, Toastmasters International helps men and women learn the arts of speaking, listening, and thinking – vital skills that promote self-actualization, enhance leadership potential, foster human understanding, and contribute to the betterment of mankind.
It is basic to this mission that Toastmasters International continually expand its worldwide network of member clubs, thereby offering ever-greater numbers of people the opportunity to benefit from its program.

The Mission of the Club


The mission of a Toastmasters club is to provide a mutually supportive and positive learning environment in which every individual member has the opportunity to develop oral communication and leadership skills, which in turn foster self-confidence and personal growth.


Vision

Toastmasters International empowers people to achieve their full potential and realize their dreams. Through our member clubs, people throughout the world can improve their communication and leadership skills, and find the courage to change.

Values

Toastmasters International’s core values are integrity, dedication to excellence, service to the member, and respect for the individual. These are values worthy of a great organization, and we believe we should incorporate them as anchor points in every decision we make. Our core values provide us with a means of not only guiding but also evaluating our operations, our planning, and our vision for the future.
Being a Toastmaster means more than simply making a commitment to self-development. Everyone who joins a Toastmasters club is making a commitment to the club, to its members, and to the organization
as a whole.



A Toastmaster’s Promise

As a member of Toastmasters International and my club, I promise . . .
  •  To attend club meetings regularly;
  •  To prepare all of my speech and leadership projects to the best of my ability, basing them on projects in the Competent Communication manual, Advanced Communication manuals or Competent Leadership manual;
  •  To prepare for and fulfill meeting assignments;
  •  To provide fellow members with helpful, constructive evaluations;
  •  To help the club maintain the positive, friendly environment necessary for all members to learn and grow;
  •  To serve my club as an officer when called upon to do so;
  •  To treat my fellow club members and our guests with respect and courtesy;
  •  To bring guests to club meetings so they can see the benefits Toastmasters membership offers;
  •  To adhere to the guidelines and rules for all Toastmasters educational and recognition programs;
  •  To maintain honest and highly ethical standards during the conduct of all Toastmasters activities.


Welcome to Solid Rock Toastmasters

I want to welcome everyone to our local Texarkana Toastmasters Club. We would LOVE to have you as a visitor at any of our meetings.

We meet on Tuesdays 6:30pm at the Southwest Community Center: 3222 W. 7th Street Texarkana, TX 75501





Toastmasters International is a non-profit educational organization that teaches public speaking and leadership skills through a worldwide network of clubs. Headquartered in Englewood, Colo., the organization's membership exceeds 357,000 in more than 16,600 clubs in 143 countries. Since 1924, Toastmasters International has helped people from diverse backgrounds become more confident speakers, communicators, and leaders.


Watch this 4.34 minute video clip to get an idea of how Toastmasters might be  benefit for you, your business, family, or group: